I stumbled across kink.com four years ago while I was researching something, and although I'd never liked porn before, the sexandsubmission and the fuckingmachines sites sparked something in me.
When I think back on it, the erotica I've been drawn to has always involved people being tied up and dominated. The Sleeping Beauty series, for instance, and scenes in movies with D/s undertones, even subtle ones. But after discovering those sites I started thinking about it a lot. I started following the blogs of people in D/s relationships, and I started getting horny a lot more often.
My husband knows I like to be spanked, tied up, ordered around, and thrown around roughly during sex, and we do that, but I don't know if he knows how deep my interest in it goes. I've shown him some of the videos I like (with cropping and whipping, nipple clamps, heavy bondage, humiliation) and shown him the blogs I read, and he seems put off by much of it.
I think the level to which we do go is a pretty good compromise between our preferences, but sometimes I can't help wondering what it would be like to get further into it, to explore a little more. Like to do an actual scene, or to set some rules, or for him to give me orders in public. I don't know if we'll ever do it. I have a feeling it'll just feel silly if his heart isn't in it.
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When I think back on it, the erotica I've been drawn to has always involved people being tied up and dominated. The Sleeping Beauty series, for instance, and scenes in movies with D/s undertones, even subtle ones. But after discovering those sites I started thinking about it a lot. I started following the blogs of people in D/s relationships, and I started getting horny a lot more often.
My husband knows I like to be spanked, tied up, ordered around, and thrown around roughly during sex, and we do that, but I don't know if he knows how deep my interest in it goes. I've shown him some of the videos I like (with cropping and whipping, nipple clamps, heavy bondage, humiliation) and shown him the blogs I read, and he seems put off by much of it.
I think the level to which we do go is a pretty good compromise between our preferences, but sometimes I can't help wondering what it would be like to get further into it, to explore a little more. Like to do an actual scene, or to set some rules, or for him to give me orders in public. I don't know if we'll ever do it. I have a feeling it'll just feel silly if his heart isn't in it.