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The Return of the Anonymous Sex Confessional

Way back in the Mesozoic era of LiveJournal, there was a time when several people would regularly host Anonymous Sex Confessionals for the amusement and diversion of all. The practice died out due to inertia, apathy and the occasional drama llama, but seeing as how I'm wrapped up in a bit of LJ nostalgia at the moment (and since the topic seems to be on the minds of some of my fellow LJians) I thought I'd dust off the idea and give it another go. And so:

Anonymous Sex Confessions

Anonymous comments are enabled for the next 48 hours, and IPs are not being logged. Share something about you sexually: wants, experiences, preferences, fears. Anything goes, and yes, this applies even if you don't have a sex life right now. Confession is good for the soul.

The three disclaimers:

1) You may safely assume that the comments to this post contain text of an NC-17 nature. Treat accordingly.

2) The management reserves the right to cease operation of the confessional at any time. Drama and abusive language will not be tolerated.

3) Feel free to link to this post from your own journal. The more, the merrier.

So!

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I have hardly shared this with anyone...

I am impotent, due to a vascular condition. ED meds don't help much, because of the nature of the condition (blood flows right in just fine... it just flows right out again). I have been dealing with this for close to a decade now.

I used to have a really fantastic erection... really, I got a lot of compliments on it! And, to be blunt and egotistical about it, I damned well knew how to use it, too. I miss it.

I can still have sex. I have a mouth, and hands, and my brain, and I've got plenty of ways to satisfy a woman. But I still feel... incomplete.

I'm totally with you on the "too shy" bit. I'd love a girlfriend but am totally petrified at the thought of rejection.

They're out there!

I'm not one of them, but I know who you are and I know that they exist. :)

I stumbled across kink.com four years ago while I was researching something, and although I'd never liked porn before, the sexandsubmission and the fuckingmachines sites sparked something in me.

When I think back on it, the erotica I've been drawn to has always involved people being tied up and dominated. The Sleeping Beauty series, for instance, and scenes in movies with D/s undertones, even subtle ones. But after discovering those sites I started thinking about it a lot. I started following the blogs of people in D/s relationships, and I started getting horny a lot more often.

My husband knows I like to be spanked, tied up, ordered around, and thrown around roughly during sex, and we do that, but I don't know if he knows how deep my interest in it goes. I've shown him some of the videos I like (with cropping and whipping, nipple clamps, heavy bondage, humiliation) and shown him the blogs I read, and he seems put off by much of it.

I think the level to which we do go is a pretty good compromise between our preferences, but sometimes I can't help wondering what it would be like to get further into it, to explore a little more. Like to do an actual scene, or to set some rules, or for him to give me orders in public. I don't know if we'll ever do it. I have a feeling it'll just feel silly if his heart isn't in it.

Aw, Boston has everything....

I wish I was (able to be) as adventurous in real life as I am in my head. I am working on it, but sometimes I feel like everyone else is having all the fun. And I am not sure how to remedy that.

Watched a video once of a woman being fucked by a dog. It was pretty hot.

I hate the question, "What's the kinkiest thing you've ever done?" I tend to avoid superlatives, and I definitely don't know how to pick a "kinkiest." I'm inclined to think it can't really be scaled that way, but my brain can't help but try once the question has been asked. Is it kinkier to have a friend practice shibari on you while your your boyfriend watches, or to be made to kneel on the kitchen floor and perform oral sex with a fist wrapped in your hair? Is sucking on a foot fetishist's left foot while penetrating yourself with his right less mainstream than your partner putting you on the phone with his primary when you are incoherent because of his fingers inside you before going on to fuck you with a sex toy while she listens? It's insoluble, and I can't even decide if any of it is kinky at all, let alone kinkiest. I kind of think it's a stupid question, and while I don't mind the reverie, that question usually comes from someone who doesn't know me well, and is pushing too hard too soon on matters sexual, so I end up thinking through hot times in the past while being turned off in the present. It's very annoying.

I really, really want a MMF double-penetration threesome. Despite having multiple male partners, I have yet to find the right combination to make this happen. ARGH.

Girth? Hello...

I don't necessarily do so well with forceful oral, but plain old shag me into the mattress? With someone thick? *ahem* There's a reason my toy collection looks the way it does.

MMF is my favorite threesome configuration. :)

Girth? Hello...

Hello. :)

There's a redhead on my friends list whom I'm dying to go down on. Other things too, of course, but for some reason the thought of pushing her back and sliding her skirts up to her waist and spreading her thighs and tracing her clit with my tongue until she whimpers and screams keeps popping into my head. I wish I knew her well enough IRL to ask.

I've been celibate since 2008 and not by choice, I'd really like to remedy that this year. After finally overcoming my childhood sexual abuse, it'd be nice to HAVE sex again.

And fuck being anonymous about this.

This story: tame, tame, tame. But I want to share it, and this is a safe place.

Recently I took part in a Friending Frenzy. The night after I posted, I checked my replies, and saw several people saying nice things about me. I saw one woman in particular, thought "Hey, she's really cute" -- and INSTANT WOOD. Like the spring-loaded wood you'd get back when your body first started going "Hey, I can do this! WHEEE!!!"

In fairness, she is really cute. It was the SPEED that surprised me. I'm not usually that spring-loaded. And the potential for this to be really, really awkward got obvious really quickly. You can't really say "I just met you, because of words and a picture, and was AROUSED LIKE WHOA."

Now that that's out, I'll be well-behaved. That part of me also works.

I grow more and more in love with my partner every day. Our sex life is good (when external stress hasn't impacted it) and satisfying. I have no complaints.

Other than the fact that I wish he were more open to polyamory. I'm willing to sacrifice my poly leanings for the sake of the relationship as a whole... but it's hard to not allow my poly yearnings to impact things. :\

Orgasm with a condom isn't too hard for me as long as not too much else is distracting me. I use Durex ultra thin (the purple-on-black box). I tried a ribbed condom once, that was way too thick, I'm not sure if it was just very hard to come or if I couldn't come wearing it.

I want children...and a stable family to raise them in. I don't necessarily want babies, but I know they're a necessary step. Meanwhile, impregnation can be a fun fantasy...best if it's someone I won't likely be with IRL. Of course, fantasies can go a totally different direction, e.g. 69ing with (the legal-age Anakin) while Qui-Gon takes me from behind. You know it's a fantasy because Ani wasn't old enough while Qui-Gon was alive...and because it doesn't matter how tall or flexible Ani and I are.

(Not that I fantasize about Liam Neeson as himself or in any other part, not that I fantasize about Anakin or his actor in any other context...)

I'd like to be naked in front of a group that would like me that way.

Or to be on all fours and milked as a bull.

After having an active sex life for more than 10 years, my identity shifted fast and hard from sub to switch when I met my current play partner a few months ago. We're meeting again soon, and I'm so happy and excited.

I really, really want that too.

mmmm.... me three. Too bad my husband won't get past his jealousy to let me try it, despite me finding the perfect other man for it.

*nods*

Yeah, I'm feeling that.

I love kissing. Everything about it: the tongue, the lips, the saliva, the concurrent groping and grinding. I could avoid intercourse if I could have a hot-n-heavy makeout session. I guess I just didn't get enough of that as a teenager/young adult. ;) Sometimes I hate it when he grabs my crotch right off the bat without any work-up to it. I'm not a fucking lawnmower, you don't just pull on the string and expect it to rev up. There should be tension and some trepidation, and if you give me all the foreplay I need you'll find I respond like whoah. There has to be a build-up, sensuality, full-on drowning in desire -- and kissing, for me, is a big part of that. What's so frustrating is that he's not as into it as I am, and when he does it's not as good as almost every other person I've kissed.

Good for you! I wish you luck in that endeavor.

Yeah, I know how you feel...I'm trying counseling. Don't know if it'll work, but it's nice to have an impartial sounding board.

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