The Golden Shadow

May. 4th, 2026 06:43 pm
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So in psychotherapy circles where Shadow work is a thing, one of the ways you get people to buy in on the difficult work is by identifying the “good”/adaptive/healthy parts of the self that got relegated to the unconscious and using them as, basically, bait. They are the carrot to the rest of the Shadow’s stick, the parts that people want and that keep them invested in the process. And by then I now, of course, mean us. Bc I am going to name all of the traits I had as a kid that I want back, damn it, and I’m going to try to integrate one of those traits every time I blog about Shadow work. Read more... )

History

May. 4th, 2026 04:59 pm
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Archaeologists Discover 80-Ton Stones Beneath the Sea, Believed to Be Remains of One of the Seven Wonders of the Ancient World

More than 1,600 years after its disappearance, massive stones from the Lighthouse of Alexandria are being recovered from the Mediterranean seabed. Archaeologists have brought up massive stone blocks tied to one of the seven wonders of the ancient world.

In the waters off Alexandria, asubmerged site known for decades is now yielding some of its most striking elements. The PHAROS project reports that22 monumental stone blocks linked to the lighthouse have been lifted from the seabed after years of underwater exploration.



That which is loved, is remembered; that which is remembered, lives.

Birdfeeding

May. 4th, 2026 01:11 pm
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Today is cloudy, mild, and damp. It rained a little earlier.

I fed the birds. I've seen a few sparrows and house finches.

I put out water for the birds.

I set out potted plants to get some sun.

EDIT 5/4/26 -- I did a bit of work around the patio.

EDIT 5/4/26 -- I planted the surviving squashes. I am dubious if any will survive, but maybe some of the cushaws will. They all sprouted and grew vigorously at first, but quickly started to die. Forget gaining 2-3 months by starting seeds indoors. However, if I had started them in April instead of March, that might have worked. Fortunately I still have more seeds, so I can also try direct sowing.

EDIT 5/4/26 -- I planted a northern red maple at the edge of the savanna.

I saw a male Baltimore oriole in the forest garden! :D 3q3q3q!!! I cut an orange in half and put it out for him. I've also seen a large mixed flock of sparrows and house finches, a male cardinal, and a fox squirrel.

EDIT 5/4/26 -- I planted a 'Prairie Fire' dogwood in the west hedge of the savanna and put mulch around it.








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https://shadowselfdiscovery.com/how-to-do-shadow-work

https://www.thetappingsolution.com/blog/vagus-nerve-tapping/

https://neurodivergentinsights.com/not-everything-needs-an-upside/

“Brains are survival engines, not truth detectors.” —-Peter Watts




In other news, I am sick but can’t sleep yet. It came on suddenly, so I’m not prepared for it, and that’s a failure to extrapolate on my part. Boo. At least we had Covid/Flu A/Flu B tests in the house? So it’s probably not those.

I am about to go scoot down the stairs on my butt like a toddler to get food. Maybe I will take a tote bag to load up and crawl back up with it. That sounds like a plan.

Good luck out there, and please mask up. This shit is rough and I’ve only been sick for two hours.

stolen from sushiflop

May. 4th, 2026 09:40 am
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Writing meme! Give me a number and I'll share my thoughts.

1. Favorite genre(s) to write
2. Preferred tense & POV
3. Tag you’ve used most
4. What inspires you to write
5. 1 line from a current WIP
6. Trope you want to write
7. Favorite character to write
8. How you choose your titles
9. Describe your writing style
10. A comment you treasure
11. Favorite scene you’ve written
12. Fic that best represents you
13. A fun fact about a fic you wrote
14. How you handle writer’s block
15. Hardest thing for you to write
16. Dialogue you loved writing
17. Your planning process
18. Your editing process
19. Your favorite writing tip
20. Your current writing goals

Monday Update 5-4-26

May. 4th, 2026 12:10 am
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These are some posts from the later part of last week in case you missed them:
Science
Books
Safety
Birdfeeding
Science
Today's Adventures
Climate Change
Birdfeeding
Philosophical Questions: Government
A Day Away
Greek Myth Fest Bingo Card 5-1-26
Today's Adventures
Friday Five
Birdfeeding
Follow Friday 5-1-26: Movies
Bingo
New Year's Resolutions Check In
Community Thursdays
Birdfeeding
Poetry Fishbowl Report for April 7, 2026
Today's Adventures
Birdfeeding
Gaming
Cuddle Party

Poem: "Walnut Park" has 42 comments. Early Humans has 22 comments. Philosophical Questions: Pregnancy has 67 comments. Safety has 78 comments.


Three Weeks for Dreamwidth is running April 25-May 15. People aim to make a new post each day, or participate in various activities to celebrate the platform.

Three Weeks for Dreamwidth April 25-May 15

Three Weeks for Dreamwidth: Introduction to Becoming an Expert
Three Weeks for Dreamwidth: Architecture
Three Weeks for Dreamwidth: Dance
Three Weeks for Dreamwidth: Music
Three Weeks for Dreamwidth: Painting
Three Weeks for Dreamwidth: Poetry
Three Weeks for Dreamwidth: Sculpture
Three Weeks for Dreamwidth: Conflict Resolution
Three Weeks for Dreamwidth: Cooking
Three Weeks for Dreamwidth: Coping Skills

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"No Faster or Firmer Friendships" has 50 new verses. It belongs to Polychrome Heroics and needs $35 to be complete. Josué reads a funny poem to Maria-Vera.


The weather has been variable here. We got some rain the other day. Seen at the birdfeeders this week: a mixed flock of sparrows and house finches, a pair of cardinals, a brown thrasher, and a fox squirrel. I heard a bluejay screaming but didn't see it. Currently blooming: violets, pansies, violas, sweet alyssum, bleeding heart, alliums, marigolds, honeysuckle, raspberies, snapdragons, lantana, million bells, blue lobelia, petunias, portulaca, nemesia, wild chives, star of Bethlehem, wood hyacinths, columbine. Flower buds: peonies, irises. Green fruit: mulberries.
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This year during Three Weeks for Dreamwidth, I'm writing about reading as a way of becoming an expert in a given subject. Read Part 1: Introduction to Becoming an Expert, Part 2: Architecture, Part 3: Dance, Part 4: Music, Part 5: Painting, Part 6: Poetry, Part 7: Sculpture, Part 8: Conflict Resolution, Part 9: Cooking.


Coping skills make up a toolkit for dealing with stress and challenges. Broad categories include distraction, grounding, emotional relief, self-love, thought challenge, and higher self. Different methods suit different kinds of difficulty. It is important to develop a wide variety of coping skills so that you have something to suit most issues you encounter. Here on Dreamwidth, consider [community profile] awesomeers, [community profile] birdfeeding, [community profile] bloomandawaken, [community profile] books, [community profile] cherishchanges, [community profile] gardening, [community profile] goals_on_dw, [community profile] journalsandplanners, [community profile] recipecommunity, or [community profile] thankfulthursday


Three Weeks for Dreamwidth April 25-May 15

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Science

May. 3rd, 2026 11:21 pm
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New tree genus discovered that is related to tomatoes and potatoes

Scientists have identified a rare Andean forest tree related to tomatoes and potatoes as a plant group never named before.

The discovery redraws part of the nightshade family and ties the tree to plant chemicals with medical power.

Censorship

May. 3rd, 2026 09:39 pm
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This year I've spotted multiple events and venues doing Three Weeks for Dreamwidth that are also banning Harry Potter and generative AI content. If someone wants to do this in their own event or venue, that's their choice. But when they do it in a way that makes it seem like a parameter of Three Weeks for Dreamwidth as a whole, that is not true and not okay. The one core activity of Three Weeks for Dreamwidth is blogging every day, on ANY topic.

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Today was not so bad.

May. 3rd, 2026 10:37 pm
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I walked over 6 miles and still had energy at the end of the day! Working on AoT 2025:d19, taking quite a few sittings. I did this project once before on the crease pattern, and now, i am practicing it on my favorite paper, which I also water marbled! It is turning out great, and I am taking my time. Supposedly, my mom and I will go to a sandwich shop tomorrow, how exciting! Sometimes, I feel like I do not spend enough time with her, but, I feel a little 充実してるat the end of the day,so I guess something might be working out. I keep applying for jobs, but society is not interested in working with me. Sometimes it is frustrating, but my origami is very happy about it.
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My poem "Gramarye" has been accepted by Not One of Us. As indicated by the title, it bears some influence from Susan Cooper. The rest was influenced by anger and the sea. I am coming up on twenty-five years as a published author and it started with this pocket-sized black-and-white 'zine. I always encourage writer-type persons of my acquaintaince to send them fiction and poetry.

I regretfully conclude that I am not the target audience for Elizabeth Myers' Mrs. Christopher (1946) when its its banger of a premise—whether the three witnesses to the shooting of a blackmailer will turn in their benefactor of a little old lady who pulled the trigger when the reward is £500—plays out as a Christian thought experiment of forgiveness and love in which there is no suspense after all except for the punch line of the verdict. Its tempted witnesses are not psychologically unbelievable and their different circumstances are drawn in well-written detail, but taken all together they feel like a rigged deck. I am not sure whether I should try the film it was adapted into, Marc Allégret's Blackmailed (1951). On a shallower note, the author had an incredible face in her short life. I was glad to read that she bonded with Eleanor Farjeon.

Well, actually, there are quite a few noir thrillers told from the perspective of a woman, but Elisabeth Sanxay Holding's The Blank Wall (1947) may have been my first, too, through its screen translation of Max Ophüls' The Reckless Moment (1949), and I like the cover choice of Jo Cain's New York Harbor (c. 1940) a lot.

fannish musings

May. 3rd, 2026 06:11 pm
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* I finished that Gallaghercest fic at the beginning of April, wrote 100 words for my drabble assignment, and otherwise wrote nothing all month. I keep getting the vague urge to write but without any concrete inspiration.

* Probably doesn't help that I started a new Stardew farm. A week and a half later, I'm most of the way through fall of Year 1, so clearly that's where my time and brain have gone. Oops.

* OTOH I'm so impatient for [personal profile] summerofhorrorexchange, which doesn't even open noms for almost two weeks, that I might start my letter tonight. Current plans include Ready or Not, maybe The Housemaid, maybe Re-Animator.

* The other day I moved over 100 drables and ficlets to a separate AO3 account. The idea was to make me feel a little less overwhelmed by the number of works on my main, but I'm not sure how well that's going to work, given there are still over 300. But in case you're like "where did Snick put all her drabbles?!?" they're here.

* I've been dealing with the existential horrors by buying books. There are worst vices. In the past month or so I've bought more books, mostly used, than in the last year combined. Specifically:
Frisson - museum art exhibition book
A God in the Shed - JF Dubeau
In the Forest of Serre - Patricia McKillip (have now read)
The Enterprise of Death - Jesse Bullington
My Death - Lisa Tuttle (had already read)
Black Light - Elizabeth Hand
Silk - Caitlin Kiernan
Anathem - Neal Stephenson (already read)
Flyaway - Katherine Jennings (already read)
Knock Knock Open Wide - Neil Sharpson (already read)

At some point I was like, shoot, I need to start reading again to justify all these new books. And then I did... and so far it's been nearly all library reading. LOL oh well, that still beats not reading.

Seasons of Drabbles

May. 3rd, 2026 02:28 pm
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Drabbles are revealed! I had hoped that this would kickstart my writing again after a month off and that I would write lots of treats, but in fact I only wrote my assignment, alas.

However, I got SIX incredible gifts, and I highly recommend them all. They are not getting enough love yet in my opinion. ;__; 100 words unless otherwise noted.

pickled, Oasis RPF, Liam/Noel. So cute in that specific Gallagher way.

Five Hauntings of John Pelham Ratcliffe, Kyle Murchison Booth stories, Booth/Ratcliffe. 500 words. Five drabbles about Ratcliffe before, during, and after "Drowning Palmer," and every one of them is perfect. What a great mix of tones, with some amazing lines.

Gilding, Kyle Murchison Booth stories, Booth & Claudia Coburn. A creepy/sweet/funny drabble.

Counterproposal, Ready or Not, Grace & Ursula meet before Grace marries Alex. The possibilities!! 👀

Field of Play, Ready or Not, Ursula & the Lawyer. I can SEE Elijah Wood's smarmy little lawyer smirk in the last line of this.

Down to My Last Cigarette, Ready or Not, Ursula/Grace. Another possible divergence, and full of hot little details. 👀👀👀

Safety

May. 3rd, 2026 02:07 pm
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Why the U.S. struggles to track heat deaths and protect people from extreme temperatures

A new analysis has revealed that the United States cannot reliably count heat deaths or identify who must act when temperatures turn dangerous.

That failure can turn a clear forecast into a patchy response, leaving protection to depend on local records, budgets, and authority.



TL;DR -- People don't give a shit.

However, there are things that any individual, organization, or town can do about this even in the absence of effective government or societal action.

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Movies!

May. 3rd, 2026 01:15 pm
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I've been to the theater a bunch recently!

(BTW, the reason I see so much in the theater these days is because I have a monthly subscription to one of the big theater chains, which means I get to see basically any movie I want for free. This works out to be worth the cost if I see at least two non-matinee movies a month, which is pretty easy when there's a new horror movie pretty much every weekend.

And between my local chain theater, which has an outsized number of screens for its location and therefore shows a lot of weird indie stuff just to fill space, and the slightly further away indie theater that also by definition shows a lot of weird indie stuff, it turns out I'm able to see just about anything with a 100+ US theater release.)

Over Your Dead Body (2026). Samara Weaving and Jason Segel star as a married couple who go for a weekend at their secluded cabin, each with the intention of killing the other, and are interrupted by the some escaped convicts (including Timothy Olyphant) and their equally unhinged former prison guard (Juliette Lewis).

This particular brand of "people hate each other, comedically" is not really my thing, but a friend wanted to go because the director was involved with Lonely Island, and in fact I had a good time. Samara Weaving is always delightful, and it was fun here to have her using more or less her natural Aussie accent. There were a lot of funny bits, both lines and slapstick. Things get quite gory at the end, in a fun way if you're into that sort of thing. The movie also did some things with nonlinear storytelling that were fun without feeling overly clever.

I will say I could really have done without the extended comedic scene of one of the convicts attempting to rape Segel's character. I also was both unpersuaded by the couple's motivations for wanting to kill each other and not entirely sold how things ended between them.

Still, it wasn't hard to just ride along with where the movie wanted to take me. If you're in the mood for a frothy, kind of mean-spirited comedy with occasional attempts at being heartwarming, you could do worse.

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Hokum (2026). Writer Ohm Bauman (Adam Scott) is a writer haunted by his mother's death who takes his parents' ashes to the inn in Ireland where they honeymooned, which might be haunted.

This was directed by Damien McCarthy, whose previous movie Oddity I thought was just okay, mostly because I found it overly linear with no surprises. This, on the other hand, has enough moving pieces that it sometimes felt to me like it didn't leave itself enough room to be scary. There are for sure some jump scares and creepy bits, but overall my main interest was in how various plot obstacles would be solved, which, combined with the writer main character, made it all feel a bit Stephen Kingian.

I will say spoilers )

Overall I had a good time. The plot is engaging, Scott is great, and McCarthy does a good job of spooling out his plot at just the right pace. I just didn't ever feel a strong emotional connection to it.

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Mother Mary (2026). Troubled pop star Mother Mary (Anne Hathaway) goes to her bitter former collaborator and fashion designer Sam (Michaela Coel) for a dress for her first performance in years.

On one level, this movie is absolutely magnetic. Sam is chockful of vitriol, and Coel acts her ass off. Even when other characters are present (all of which are women; I don't think there's a single man with lines), it feels like Sam and Mary are the only characters in the scene. Everything is filmed tight and close and claustrophobic, with dim lighting and lots of shadows. The psychological tension basically doesen't let up for the whole two hours.

All of which is good, because on another level, very little happens in this movie, lol. If you're game for toxic psychological drama between two women, this is For You. If you're not, boy are you going to be bored. The A24 experience!

The movie also has a lot of visual interest. We get to see a ton of Mother Mary's pseudo-religious costumes, some only for a shot or two. There are clips of her concert performances and an extended a capella modern dance sequence. As the movie goes in, the line between flashback and present, between reality and dream, gets thinner and thinner, and the imagery gets ever more surrealistic and dramatic.

On paper, all of this should be my jam. I think the main problem I have with the film is that Sam is borderline unhinged in her fury and resentment, and meanwhile Mary feels so defeated the whole movie, a bedraggled, exhausted person struggling for purpose. The huge difference in their energy makes the whole movie feel unbalanced. This isn't helped by how the source of Sam's all-consuming resentment is basically that Mary stopped answering her texts, or by how despite Mary's dramatic iconography, her actual music that we hear is the most basic, generic, nearly hookless pop music imaginable. (Also I thought it was super funny that when someone quotes the attendance figures at one of Mary's concerts, it turns out she's just playing arenas, not the stadiums one would expect from her supposed stature an artist.)

I think in writing this review, I've talked myself around to liking it more. I'm definitely not mad I watched it, and I really respect the director's ambition, even if it didn't all quite land.

Birdfeeding

May. 3rd, 2026 01:42 pm
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Today is partly sunny, windy, and cool.

I fed the birds. I've seen a few sparrows and house finches.

I put out water for the birds.

EDIT 5/3/26 -- I did a bit of work around the patio.

EDIT 5/3/26 -- I planted the lantana in a pot and the lady's mantle in the strip herb garden.

EDIT 5/3/26 -- I planted the ice plant in the mauve pot and put it on the old picnic table.

The weather has turned cloudy with howling wind. >_<

EDIT 5/3/26 -- I planted the hoary vervain in the wildflower garden.

I've seen a fox squirrel at the hopper feeder.

EDIT 5/3/26 -- I did more work around the patio.

I am done for the night.

Am I lost inside my mind?

May. 2nd, 2026 11:20 pm
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In the afternoon when the overcast cleared, [personal profile] spatch and I went walking down to the Mystic and I photographed a whole lot of flowers, of which I was happiest with the ones that came out like abstracts.

I hear the river say your name. )

Physically I am just pretty miserable, but the lilac is breaking out in real bloom and Rob has been showing me potato-quality Deep Space Nine (1993–99). I had tarragon-sautéed mushrooms and zucchini for dinner.

Three Weeks for Dreamwidth: Cooking

May. 3rd, 2026 12:25 am
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This year during Three Weeks for Dreamwidth, I'm writing about reading as a way of becoming an expert in a given subject. Read Part 1: Introduction to Becoming an Expert, Part 2: Architecture, Part 3: Dance, Part 4: Music, Part 5: Painting, Part 6: Poetry, Part 7: Sculpture, Part 8: Conflict Resolution.


Three Weeks for Dreamwidth Part 9: Cooking

Cooking is a skillset for preparing food to be eaten. It refers to heat, but not all food necessarily heated -- think salads, ice cream, and so on. Aspects include a variety of kitchen skills such as knife work and making sauces, cooking methods such as steaming or grilling, and specific appliances such as a crockpot or microwave oven. Everyone needs to eat, so it's best for each person to have at least some cooking skill. All cultures have their own foodways. Here on Dreamwidth, check out [community profile] thecookbook, [community profile] creative_cooks, [community profile] fresh_haul, [community profile] recipecommunity, [community profile] veg_life, and [community profile] vegansofdreamwidth.


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